Why do we hurt those we love most, some of you might not agree with me, but its true to some extent.
As a child, when you want something, you first request your parents to give you the object you desire of. If your parents do not accept your request, you either start crying or stop talking and eating or do anything that hurt your loved one.
As an infant you get lots of attention and positive energy, care from your parents and all this train your brain about your relationship expectation form your loved one, as you grow, your parents start decreasing the levels of emotional energy shots for you as they need to focus their energy on newer things. So, when you don't get what you expect you start bombarding negative emotion toward your loved one so that when they feel hurt, they can come back to you feeling guilty and will again increase the amount of emotional energy they give to you.
May sound cumbersome ( as I am not that much of a good writer) but all I can say is that nothing changes when you grow up in your life. When you come out of closet of your parents, you again bombarded by the emotional energies of friends and the love of your life, you again feel like new born to all these complex relationships, you thrive on the energies of all those new found loved ones.
Again, Time comes when you have grown up and the amount of energy from your loved one gets lower, and you start emitting negative energy to hurt the loved one so that their sense of guilt will get you what you need.
So thats why we all always hurt we love the most!
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