Commitment, Career, Compromise....

If you find the love of your life, you commit yourself to the one you love. You start living in a world which is full of dreams, weaved around the one you want to live the rest of your life. But, there are dreams which you have been dreaming much before the love of your life entered in your life and those dreams are yet to be fulfilled.

Love comes with commitment, commitment to be there with your loved one, Commitment to share everything including dreams. So what about the dreams that do not include your love of life? Dreams that can only be materialized by constant determination to succeed, which require time, hard work and single track mindset. Are those dreams needed to be compromised just because you think that they cannot be achieved with your other dreams that include your love of life.

The career, which also requires commitment and is absolutely essential to realize all the other personal commitments; Career and Dreams are two different path that merges together when your career is same as your dream. But mostly your career and dreams are of different type and you need to balance your time between your career and towards pursuit of happiness.

Life becomes miserable when your career demands more than what you are giving it, and your love also wants validation of your commitments (e.g. marriage, or moving in together) and then your dreams seems to be fading away between your commitment and career. The priority of commitment becomes the highest and of dreams become lowest.

So what to do now? How not to compromise your Dreams for Commitment and Career? I am desperate for an answer....